Strip clubs, just like all other bars and entertainment venues, have their own etiquette and rules. Because sex is obviously the point of a strip club many men wonder ‘why can’t you touch a stripper?’. The following will answer that question and give an overview of how to behave properly in a strip club.
While women who work in strip clubs offer a sexy service there are rules about what you can and can’t do with your hands when interacting with them. Most guys fail to appreciate that strippers are actually dancers (whether naked or not) and do not have sex for money which is prostitution: there is a difference! Some men think that because they are showering a stripper with money that this gives them the right to do more than look. This is wrong. There are some countries and cultures where women who work in strip clubs are also sex workers but this is not the case in the US. Some men seem to think that if they keep upping the amount they offer the dancers (some report being offered more than $1000) that they will sleep with them. Once again, this is wrong: stripping and hooking are two different occupations.
Even when a man has paid for a lapdance in a strip club there are limits to what they can and cannot do and overly sexualized touching is not permitted. Even worse, according to some lapdancers, are the men who cannot control themselves during the dance and, although they don’t touch the dancer, ejaculate in their pants leading to a wet spot the dancer is going to end up in. Girls in this situation say that if there is a possibility of this happening it is good manners to warn the girl first.
In general, the rules that apply to girls who work in strip clubs are the same that apply to people you meet in any other walk of life: treat them with the same respect you would a woman in any other situation. Dancers report crude punters who talk about ‘bitches’ and feel they can degrade the performers just because of what they do and the fact they are throwing money around. For anyone thinking they can behave this way, be warned that this is a fast route to the pavement at the hands of the club’s bouncers. In general, be cool and keep it professional; don’t ask the dancers for their phone numbers – they are at work and this is probably the last place they are looking for love. More details here.
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