Someone has made your day better or helped you reach a particular goal. Whether it’s a loved one, friend, boss, or coworker, you have all the reasons to show gratitude. Did you know that thank you cards are some of the best ways to express sincere appreciation? But you don’t want to sound cheesy or to be mistaken for being selfish. Neither do you want to appear pretentious or flashy. Here’s how to do it.
Be Precise
Express your gratitude by specifying the kind of assistance you’ve received. Let the giver know how lending a hand improved your sales or allowed you to complete a seemingly complex project. They’ll be glad to learn that you have included them in your success journey. Thanking them for coming over recognizes their appearance, but adding that they gave you moral support is more precise. The idea is to identify reasons their act of kindness was crucial. They will feel more appreciated.
Avoid Showing Gratitude in Humble-Brag Manner
Be careful not to display a thank you card message that seems like an ulterior motive. You don’t need to remind someone of the favors you might need (even if they are aware). Don’t give the receiver an impression that you’re opportunistic. A genuine thank you card doesn’t come across as a strategic move.
Personalize the Gratitude
Gifts tailored to the receiver look more sincere. Another way to personalize the card is by adding some mementos hinting at the special moments you had with them. You may add photos you took together at a certain event or venue. Also, consider how the person would love to be thanked. A sassy individual who likes the attention of a crowd would be thrilled to receive a thank you card during a big meeting. They will also be delighted if their strengths are read out loud. For a quiet person, consider surprising them with the card in a private place. Shy people feel embarrassed if called out in the middle of a crowd. Before sending the card, know what the recipient likes. But when you are not sure, avoid using stage-managed praises to avoid coming across as fake.
Showing friends and family that you appreciate them is easy. You can give them hugs or some cupcakes. It gets more challenging when you want to send thank you cards to people in your line of profession or prominent. The above tactics will help you craft an appropriate message without sounding fake when sending thanks where it is due.
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