In theory, this means that the submissive is utterly dependent on the Dominant’s desires, whims, and plans. It means that the submissive is expected to act and live in the way the Dominant has planned for them.
It could lead to:
• Learning multiple new professions, including some you didn’t want, and abandoning others;
• Eliminating various unhealthy behaviors;
• Drastically changing how you deal with some people
• Changing the way you talk to and look at your Dom;
• Changing your nutrition;
• The strange tendency of treating things that the Dom says as a recommendation. It works sometimes and doesn’t at other times, but I keep such statements in mind as a general guideline for my actions.
It implies that you have less freedom to question his decisions and that if you accept him as your Master, you accept the way he organizes and directs the relationship.
Some see being puppy collar as having more freedom and leeway. Some of them fight each other over what constitutes “The True Lifestyle.” I don’t believe there is any absolute truth. This is the most you should afford in your submission and your challenging situations.
Your D/s relationship should not be the same as the D/s relationships of your friends. We express it in a variety of ways. Some people only do it in the bedroom, while others do it all day, every day; some people have many rules and rituals, while others have none at all.
There is no “right” way; the key is figuring out what works best for you and your partner(s) and being open to the fact that it is not a static situation. Every day, people learn and grow, and relationships evolve. Build on what you have with excellent communication, then continue exploring together.
If the sub questions the Dom decision, it could spell trouble. A sub should always maintain a good behavior either in public or private situation; otherwise he will be biting himself in the foot.
What makes a perfect D0m-sub relationship is the fact that the Dom realizes that the sub respects his authority and obeys his instructions. That is first advice a sub should imbibe going forward.
If you follow the rules as a submissive, your puppy collar will be super-excited to have you around. An obedience sub reaps the rewards soon enough. The Sub will be happier, the Dom will be happier—it’s a win-win situation.
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